"God’s 300, Inc believes a spiritually and physically fit man is better able to serve God and be a resource for his family than the version of himself that is not as spiritually and physically fit. In this sense, there is no cause for enmity between men. As he focuses on his relationship with God, a man only competes against himself."
Everybody
in your situation has the same choice: you can rue your situation or you
can dedicate yourself to changing it. Accept responsibility for your
future. Refuse to complain, criticize, or condemn.